There are clubs that I do not belong to.
At times, I may have tried to gain membership, but clearly I am not welcome.
Why try? some have asked. I tried because I saw the club's merit, but truly if a club doesn't want you, you don't want them either.
There are so many avenues for belonging and doing good work that one doesn't have to repeatedly knock on the door of the club where you are unwelcome.
